tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982965360329656723.post1453700621978483496..comments2023-04-13T09:40:28.820-05:00Comments on The Grow-Up Plan: Sometimes Life Just Has To Go OnAnnie Jayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07483761744957186170noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982965360329656723.post-54160729542055791382012-09-19T08:09:39.017-05:002012-09-19T08:09:39.017-05:00Thank you very much.
It's very bittersweet - ...Thank you very much.<br /><br />It's very bittersweet - I'm happy she's no longer suffering, but also sad to have her no longer part of this world. <br /><br />Thankfully, the service on Sunday was beautiful. The preacher let anyone who wanted to get up and share memories about her - it was almost jovial, if a funeral can be that.Annie Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483761744957186170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982965360329656723.post-3225755752384179842012-09-19T08:07:51.486-05:002012-09-19T08:07:51.486-05:00You are exactly right! Communication is definitely...You are exactly right! Communication is definitely something I know I need to do better. When I look back at my past relationship I know one thing I could have done a lot more of is asking for what I need.Annie Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07483761744957186170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982965360329656723.post-69338216606912164132012-09-18T15:50:13.750-05:002012-09-18T15:50:13.750-05:00Also: so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I l...Also: so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I lost my grandfather a few years back and it was really tough. People would try and rationalize it and say insensitive shit like: but he was 90, right? It doesn't matter the circumstances; she was someone you loved and for a long time. You're allowed to be upset over it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982965360329656723.post-68289481717180290212012-09-18T15:48:17.360-05:002012-09-18T15:48:17.360-05:00I feel like I could have written this about myself...I feel like I could have written this about myself. I don't trust myself in love sometimes because I do the same exact thing: I give it everything I have and make sacrifices I KNOW my partner would probably never make for me. I actually feel a little like a commitment-phobe on some level now, too. All I can say is, keep the lines of communication open so he knows where you're coming from and hopefully that will really help you get past some of the ick. Communication is KEY. I never verbalized what I needed either and it's gotten me into a lot of trouble in the past. Trying to get better at it now, though :) Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com